I just got back from a conference. The conference was pretty unremarkable. The article in Southwest airline’s inflight magazine however, was first-rate. Find the article here.
Camp Do It Yourself. Here’s the idea. Find a first-rate, energetic, spunky high school or college student. Find a handful of kids your kids like. Put sitter and kids together for a summer of low-key, creativity, informal sports, art theater and lots of relaxed create-your-own-fun.
As I was feeling the pressure to add this camp and that activity to the plate for our kids for this summer, I found this article so refreshing. Let summer be summer. A time to move at a slower pace. A time to learn how to entertain oneself instead of to be entertained. A time to lie in a hammock curled up with a book and nowhere to race off too.
Now that is a true summer gift for any child. And for us adults too!
The article also got me thinking about how easy it is to assume that a professional is the best person when you need help for your kids. Actually, often DIY therapy, tutoring etc also works great. Here’s the basic idea.
Therapy/Tutoring Do It Yourself
1. You, the parent find a professional to coach you and your wonderful high school or college student “coach” about how to work with your kid. Schedule a first meeting with the three of you to create a plan for what your “coach” will do with your child.
2. You watch out of the corner of your eye while your kid and “coach” work together. Take notes to review with your professional.
3. You and the “coach” follow-up with the professional.
4. Repeat as many times as need :)!
You save money. Your child gets more services from someone who is likely to be more on their level and way more fun. Your “coach” gets a fabulous learning experience. Everyone wins.
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